网友发帖致谢德罗赞，美国球迷：会永远支持他谢谢你

Thank you DeMar

谢谢你，德罗赞。

With the Raptors season coming to an end, I just wanted to thank DeMar for opening up about his struggles with depression. As someone that"s had depression for years and never sought professional help, hearing that someone as successful as DeMar struggles with depression really hit home to me that depression can affect anyone. I recently decided to get help, and learning that an NBA star faces the same struggles I do helped me realise that I can"t solve this alone.

随着猛龙的赛季来到了末尾，我只想和德罗赞说一声感谢，感谢他将自己抑郁症的病情开诚布公。我也身患抑郁症好些年，而且从没寻求过专业的帮助，但是听到像德罗赞这样事业成功的人也因为抑郁而苦苦挣扎，真的让我很震惊，原来真的任何人都能被抑郁症找上门。最近我决定要寻求帮助了，因为在得知一位NBA球星也面对着同样的煎熬之后，我意识到，我是无法独自战胜抑郁症的。

Thank you DeMar DeRozan. Your season may not have ended the way you wanted it to on the court, but it"s still memorable for the dialogue you opened off the court.

感谢你，德马尔-德罗赞。也许球场上的这个赛季没有如你所愿地谢幕，但是因为你的坦诚的自白，球场外的这个赛季依然值得被铭记。

[–]MyLovelyMan 438 指標 11小時前

I agree man. you know who"s probably more upset about losing than raptors fans? the raptors players. the huge circlejerk on this sub aside, two games came down to buzzer beaters and it just didn"t work out. GG Raptors and GG Derozan

我同意。大伙儿知道谁会比猛龙球迷还更因为输球而难过吗？是猛龙球员们啊。不谈话题区对猛龙的集体嘲讽，但其实这轮系列赛里有两场比赛都打到了最后时刻，猛龙只是差了一口气啊。猛龙打得不错！德罗赞也是一样！

[–]Celticsholla4adolla96 106 指標 7小時前

Right? The memes are great and all but if Toronto wins game 1, which they should have, or squeaks out game 3, this series looks much different.

凯尔特人球迷：我说也是啊！玩梗什么的确实很有意思，但是要是猛龙赢下他们本该赢的系列赛第一场，或者偷下第三场的胜利，那这轮系列赛看起来就会有很大的不同了。

[–]Vancouver Grizzliesenigmaticevil 3472 指標 11小時前

You know I thought this thread was going to be one of those ironic threads but man thanks for keeping it real. I"ve been battling depression pretty hard the past couple of years and for DeMar to come out and speak about it in the way he did was really refreshing. More and more people are speaking out about it and it means a lot to everyone that goes through that.

我看了标题，还以为这个帖子也是那些明嘲暗讽的帖子之一，但是感谢楼主的真诚流露。在过去的几年里，我一直在相当艰难地和抑郁作斗争，而听到德罗赞这样站出来讲出他的故事，真的很令人振作。越来越多的人开始谈论这件事，这对于所有那些经受着这种煎熬的人们来说，都意味着太多。

Thank you OP for not taking an opportunity to throw gasoline on a dumpster fire and setting the tone for me this morning to be thankful and appreciate.

感谢楼主没有火上浇油，而是在今天一早就让我心中充满感激。

[–]ssaltmine 447 指標 11小時前*

If anything, watching basketball is a great way to find joy in life and help you cope with difficult situations.

Edit: if Raptors, maybe turn to baseball for two months, and go back to playoff basketball after Lebron retires.

其实，看篮球比赛是个很好的发掘乐趣的方式，它能帮助你应对艰难的局面。

补充：要是你是猛龙球员，那我会建议你先去打两个月棒球，然后在勒布朗退役之后重返季后赛。

[–]Knicksocamocam 219 指標 10小時前

Plunging myself into reading every stat, rumor, and highlight of some games has definitely been an awesome distraction from stress.

让自己沉浸在数据、流言和一些比赛的高光时刻里确实是一种极好的排遣压力的方式。

[–]Nightmare_Pasta 81 指標 10小時前

yep, sports as a whole has become an outlet for me to take my mind off things when the other hobbies dont work

没错。对我而言，当所有其他爱好都不起作用时，体育就是让我忘记糟心事的良药。

[–]Warriorscwew 101 指標 9小時前

100%. There is something very comforting about how sports mirrors life. Life goes on. There"s always another game. There will be another team, and another season. Even if the players on the team change, there will be another team, another game to look forward to. When you are going through tough times, it feels like everything is crumbling around you, but knowing that I will be able to turn the game on (which game it is, who cares lol) gives me a lot of comfort.

完全同意。体育反映着生活，能让人从中得到很多慰藉。生活总在继续，比赛也总有下一场。会有新的球队不断出现，会有新的赛季不断到来。即使球队里的球员们变了，也总有其他队伍和比赛可以期待。当我经历着一段艰难的日子，仿佛身边的一切都分崩离析时，我却还是可以打开直播看看比赛（管他是哪一场呢哈哈哈），这真的让我感到很舒坦。

[–]Pelicans BandwagonErectusPenor 1631 指標 12小時前*

Must be a devastating way to end the season, feel sorry for the guy. Maybe he needs a change of scenery. He may be a million dollar basketball player but money doesn"t change the fact his father is suffering and his wife is possibly leaving him.

对德罗赞来说，这种结束赛季的方式一定是毁灭性的，我为他感到难过。也许他需要换个环境。他是一个身价百万美金的篮球运动员，但是金钱并不能让他的父亲康复，也无法阻止他妻子可能的离开。

Some people on this sub need to learn a little empathy. I can"t stand when people swipe players horrible situations under the rug because of how much money they make. Depression does not discriminate

话题区里的一些JR还是有点同情心吧。我真受不了那些觉得球员挣得多所以他们的糟糕处境就不算什么的人。抑郁症可是一视同仁啊。

[–]Bullszachwilson23 273 指標 12小時前

Did not realize he was going through so much shit off the court. I hope he"s getting the help he needs and trying to find positives amidst all the stuggles

我以前都没有意识到德罗赞在场外经历了这么多糟心的事。真希望他能得到必要的帮助，然后能在所有这些困境之中找到积极的曙光。

[–]RaptorsModernPoultry 375 指標 11小時前

His mom has been struggling with Lupus, his dad has been in and out of the hospital with a failing liver and him and his HS sweetheart broke up. Tough year for him for sure

猛龙球迷：德罗赞的母亲一直在与红斑狼疮作斗争，他的父亲因为肝脏衰竭而不断地进出医院，而德罗赞的高中女友也和他分手了。这一年对他来说一定很艰难。

[–]Smekledorf1996 480 指標 12小時前

I rhink his wife took the kids and left already.

Either way not a good situation to be in, but Demar will come out stronger for sure.

我记得他的妻子已经带着孩子离开他了。

不管怎么说，德罗赞现在所处的情况真的不理想。但是他一定会从逆境中走出来，变得更强大。

[–]Celticssahsan10 86 指標 12小時前

Not trying to be pessimistic but how can you say Demar will "come out stronger for sure"?

我不是想泼楼上的冷水，但是你咋能确信德罗赞可以“走出困境变得更强大”呢？

[–][BOS] Kevin Garnettbostonbruins922 970 指標 12小時前

Because you have to.

凯尔特人球迷：因为他必须走出来。

[–]Raptorsbeerdude111 355 指標 12小時前

She"s said that she"s in good terms with him, and she was back in Toronto for the playoffs counting down the clock again like usual. So there may be some truth to that.

猛龙球迷：她说了，她与德罗赞的关系还是很好，而且她前段时间像往常一样再次回到多伦多参加季后赛的揭幕仪式。所以可能她说的是真的？

[–]Sunshrakkar 131 指標 10小時前

Wait, is that loudly shrieking woman his wife??

慢着，那个尖叫声音贼大的女人就是他的妻子？？

[–][TOR] Delon WrightELSPEEDOBANDITO 105 指標 10小時前

I think they were only engaged, but yeah that was her.

猛龙球迷：我记得他们只是订了婚而已，但是没错，就是她。

[–]RaptorsBoon_dock_saints 130 指標 12小時前

Couple things. 1) She was his fiancee. They were never married 2) She posted on her instagram about how she was single now and then moved back to LA with the kids 3) that being said, she has been seen at some games since then in TO, sitting courtside with the kids and even after the split still campaigned for him in all star and is still super supportive

猛龙球迷：有几个事得向大家介绍一下：1）她之前是德罗赞的未婚妻，他们可从没结过婚啊。2）她在自己的Instagram上发贴称自己现在是单身了，后来她带着孩子搬回了洛杉矶。3）不过，在那之后，群众曾目击到她多次来猛龙主场看球，和孩子们一起坐在场边，甚至在二人分开之后，她依然为德罗赞入选全明星拉票，超级支持德罗赞。

[–]Raptorsdreamex 72 指標 12小時前

I"ll always support him, wherever he goes, whatever he does.

猛龙球迷：我会永远支持德罗赞，不管他去哪，不管他做啥。

[–]CelticsShahman292 322 指標 12小時前

Everyone needs help. Don’t feel ashamed. I’ve never been depressed but I’ve talked to some people with it. My main take away is they always feel like they have to conquer it alone. We are all in this together.

凯尔特人球迷：每个人都需要帮助，不要为此感觉羞耻。我从没得过抑郁症，但是我曾经和一些抑郁的人聊过天。让我印象深刻的是，他们总觉得自己必须要独自克服抑郁。其实，我们是可以共同面对的。

[–][WAS] John Walltimoxkimo 107 指標 11小時前

Not to say this is true for everyone with depression, but sometimes it"s really, really hard to allow others to help. I"ve been dealing with depression for a while now and recently it got pretty severe, but even though I recognized that people around me were willing to help me through, it felt shitty seeing everyone put so much more effort into my happiness than I was even able to muster up for myself. I just felt a lot of guilt not only because I felt like I put a burden on them, but also because they were trying harder than me, for me.

我不是说每个身患抑郁症的人都是这么觉得的，但是有时候，接受别人的帮助是真的真的很难。我也已经和抑郁症抗争了一段时间了，而最近它变得更严重了一些。即使我意识到自己身边的人都愿意帮助我，但是看到他们如此努力让我快乐，甚至比我自己为了振作起来付出了更多的努力，我真的感觉很糟心。我会感到很有负罪感，不只是因为我觉得自己给他们增加了负担，也是因为他们比我还要努力，而且是为了我。

I eventually learned to accept help, but it wasn"t easy. I wish I could tell you what I would"ve needed to hear to accept help earlier, but tbh I don"t really know.

最终我学会了接受帮助，但是这并不容易。我真希望自己可以告诉大家，听到怎样的话能让我早些学会接受帮助，但是说实话，我真的不知道。