The Seven Habits Tree: 孩子成长的7棵习惯树你知道孩子成长过程中的7棵习惯树吗？"

柯维先生，美国《时代》周刊称其为“25位最有影响力的美国人之一”，专门给孩子写过两本著作：《The 7 Habits of Happy Kids》和《The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens》，美国学校把它们归纳为孩子成长的7棵习惯树。

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习惯1

Be proactive - You"re in charge

积极主动，我的人生我负责

习惯标准：对自己负责，做事积极主动；管理自己的行为、态度和情绪；做了错事不怪别人，而应反省自己；不用别人说我也会去做正确的事情，哪怕没有人在看。

I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.

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习惯2

Begin with the end in mind - Have a plan

有目标，有计划

习惯标准：做事前先定计划和目标，努力去做有意义和能带来积极影响的事。

I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school"s mission and vision. I look ways to be a good citizen.

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习惯3

Put first things first - Work first, then play

做事分主次，先工作，后娱乐

习惯标准：不该做的事，勇于说不，在重要的事情上花时间；学会制定优先级，做日程表，并执行计划；对自己有纪律，做事井井有条。

I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.

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习惯4

Think win-win - Everyone can win

从双赢角度考虑问题，利己利人

习惯标准：勇于争取自己想要的，但同时也会考虑别人的需求；有矛盾的时候，寻求能平衡彼此需求的解决方案。

I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others" Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.

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习惯5

Seek first to understand, then to be understood

先去理解别人，再求被人理解

习惯标准：仔细聆听别人的主意和情感，努力从他人角度去理解问题；听别人说话的时候不插嘴、不打扰，并注视他的眼睛；能自信地说出自己的主意。

I listen to other people"s ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their view points. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.

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习惯6

Synergize - Together is better

协同合作会更好

习惯标准：珍重别人的优点，向他们学习；即使别人和自己很不一样，也能与大家友好相处；能有效地进行团队合作，始终保持谦虚的精神。

I value other people"s strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people"s ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.

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习惯7

Sharpen the saw - Balance feels best

磨刀不误砍柴工，寻求健康和平衡

习惯标准：注意饮食、锻炼和睡眠；多花时间和家人、朋友在一起，而不是电脑手机。

I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.

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