怎么样才能做到“保持优雅，以及锋利” 不说硬话，不

不说硬话，不做软事。
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待人以礼，做人有底。
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不骄不躁温柔待人但要坚持自我坚守底线做不到但行好事莫问前程但总要问心无愧该反击时就要反击
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第一反映是穿Prada的女巫那段长台词 【怎么样才能做到“保持优雅，以及锋利”】

剧本如下：Oh. Okay. I see. You think this has nothing to do with you. You go to your closet... and you select- I don\u0026#39;t know that lumpy blue sweater, for instance... because you\u0026#39;re trying to tell the world that you take yourself too seriously... to care about what you put on your back. But what you don\u0026#39;t know is that that sweater is not just blue. It\u0026#39;s not turquoise. It\u0026#39;s not lapis. It\u0026#39;s actually cerulean. And you\u0026#39;re also blithely unaware of the fact... that in 2002, Oscar de la Renta did a collection of cerulean gowns. And then I think it was Yves Saint Laurent- wasn\u0026#39;t it who showed cerulean military jackets? Mmm. And then cerulean quickly showed up in the collections of eight different designers. And then it, uh, filtered down through the department stores... and then trickled on down into some tragic Casual Corner... and then trickled on down into some tragic Casual Corner... where you, no doubt, fished it out of some clearance bin. However, that blue represents millions of dollars... and countless jobs... and it\u0026#39;s sort of comical how you think that you\u0026#39;ve made a choice... that exempts you from the fashion industry... when, in fact... you\u0026#39;re wearing a sweater that was selected for you by the people in this room... from a pile of stuff.这些……玩意儿？哦……我知道了，你觉得这和你没关系，你去你的衣橱里……而你选了……我不晓得……一件粗毛衣？因为你想告诉世人，你看重的是自己的内在，而不介意自己穿了什么。但你不知道那件毛衣实际上并不仅仅是蓝色那么简单，既不是青绿色，也不是宝石色，实际上是天蓝色的；而且你还天真的不知道……2002年奥斯卡德拉伦塔发布了天蓝色系列女装，后来我想可能是伊夫圣落朗，他不是发布了天蓝色军装服吗？然后很快出现了八个不同服装设计师的作品，最后它从百货商场被踢出去，流入了可悲的休闲专柜，毫无疑问，你就是在清仓大拍卖时从那里淘来的。然而这个蓝色代表了上百万美元和数不尽的工作机会……好笑的是你自认为选了一件不属于时尚界的衣服，而事实上，你所穿的这件毛衣就是这里整间屋子的人齐心为你选的……从“一些玩意儿”选出来的。然而优雅只是伪装而已，再华丽的Prada，再锋利毫不留情面的台词也掩盖不了内心的懦弱，为何要追求者些虚无呢，题主？